The Happy Incubus Club

Friday, September 18, 2009

I'm writing on my own and for myself here in a long time. I've not been quiescent the way some of the other spirits here at Outlands are, I've been busy. I've slipped unnoticed into bars and parties, into the lives of modern gay men. There has been one change since I was alive. (If you are new to this blog, I am the spirit of a Prussian soldier who died in 1806. Take it or leave it) The change has to do with the widespread practice (if one could call it that of "bottom/top" anal sex. I'm not thrilled with what I've seen. I'm kind of horrified.

When I was alive I grew up in a military academy, these years are documented in much earlier entries to my blog. Perhaps I was being naive, but in the academy, and later as a soldier on active war-time duty, a few men would have anal sex, but they were rare. More often than not we would engage in mutual masturbation (what a confounding, silly description) or less often, sucking. Those who did have anal sex were careful in what they did. What I have seen today is not so careful, especially on the part of the "top." Really, such a one is this side of raping his partner, with minimal use of lubricant, maximum use of force to make sure he gets into his lover and very little tenderness, if any. And the "bottoms" who submit themselves to such men are really crying out to be punished, that's what it seems like to me. Punished for desiring someone of your own sex, now what more could be in the interests of the churches?

Eh, maybe you would acuse me of wanting to turn back the hours, turn them back until the years where I lived. I don't know that that matters. But I would describe a romantic evening, such as an evening might go. A couple would embrace, perhaps kiss if alone. Time was spent in conversation, the a meal together. If the desire was there we would retire to the bed and kiss and caress esch other. If we did not use our hands on each other, we would use our lips. It was a very passionate time for both. Those are the kind of relation-ships which I can understand. I cannot understand why a man would want to injure another in his ass, or be injured, when there is so much information abroad about anal sex. It may be a different world, and I may be too far displaced from it, but at heart I cannot endorse this cruel form of sexual domination.

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